What I learned today
Well, not necessarily learned today, but reinforced today… What people say does not matter at all, only what they do.
A lot of us think we truly understand this principle, but we never really act on it. A girl I work with and am somewhat friends with came in yesterday after being on vaca for a week at a wedding with friends….with a rock on her finger. Apparently she got engaged the night before. Now, I won’t get into how she got engaged to a kid she dated a long time ago and then cheated on with (what we thought was) her current man for the last 6 months or longer, a kid we both work with.
What I want to point out here is that she was INSANELY vocal about how dumb all her friends were for getting married so young (she is maybe 25 or 26). To the point where she talked about it constantly and swore up and down that she is waiting a “really long” time to get married.
Then, BOOM! She goes to a wedding (which we all know makes every single girl in the room want to jump into marriage) and gets engaged to a kid she hasn’t dated in almost a year.
Don’t listen to what people say, only what they do. This is why arguing is completely useless.
